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Master has been doing some reading, we used jikatal's Elite Googling Skillz to try and find some literature on how to train your sub. I've been asking for proper training and correction for far too long now and was starting to get overly frustrated.

After alot of dead ends and file 404s we found some decent stuff and from what He says Master found some valuble stuff.

Now i just can't wait to get home and start my training.

This isn't as odd as it first sounds, I Need Training in order to grow as a submissive, and so i can learn to please Him more.

This makes for a Happy Lil sub. :-)

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ketzl
Aug. 24th, 2003 07:46 pm (UTC)
Dang nity but you rock. Hmm. Yeah. Straight up.
goddesssnoweh
Aug. 27th, 2003 04:12 am (UTC)
Do you enjoy pissing over everyone's bonfires??
Or is it just a way to pass the time?
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duranorak
Aug. 27th, 2003 07:04 am (UTC)
Oh, so do I, so I'm glad I found your little comment.

Signing a contract with someone doesn't mean you have to have every little facet of your relationship worked out first. If it did, you'd have nothing new to explore or develop with your partner and the relationship would be pretty much a dead end. You sign a contract because you're sure the other person is someone you *want* to explore and develop new things with, as well as knowing that up until then they've been someone you were happy to share experiences with.

I could try to explain about training and correction. I could point out that some people want to go deeper into submission with their partners and like the idea of getting there through training. That training is a very deep personal thing when you enter into it with someone you're contracted to, and it can form wonderfully strong mental bonds that can't be formed any other way. I could try to explain a lot more, but something tells me you're not likely to take any of it in.

E.
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duranorak
Aug. 27th, 2003 09:33 am (UTC)
I don't know about the legality of such a thing. To me, that wouldn't be the important part anyway - it would be that it was binding to *me*, damn the rest of the world. ~shrug~

If I'd become contracted to someone I loved and wanted as my Master, though, you can bet I'd want to show off about it. I'd be so proud of myself for having deserved their love and attention and trust to that degree, I wouldn't be able to stop talking about it. I don't read goddesssnoweh's journal that often, so I can't say whether you're being fair or not in your appraisal, but even if you are, I think it's reasonable.

I'm finding it difficult to explain about training and correction because I don't actually know her situation and so I don't know her motives for wanting it. Myself, though, if I were to want it in my D/s relationship, it would be to make me a *better* sub, to make my Master able to be even *more* proud of me. That doesn't mean I'm not a good sub already, or that I can't obey him just as I should most of the time - only that there are times when I do find it hard to obey him (one, nobody's perfect, and two, sometimes he'll ask me to do things I'm frightened of) and I'd want to do better at times like that. Training would help with that and would make me think more highly of myself, as well as (hopefully) making him more pleased with me.

Does any of that broaden your viewpoint at all?

E.
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goddesssnoweh
Sep. 4th, 2003 02:26 am (UTC)
if you don't know everything that she's written

OK--- I'm scared...
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