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But neither am I happy about throwing it away just because he's being a twat


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Oct. 14th, 2003 02:22 am (UTC)
I think that's always the toughest point to hit. In my first relationships when things went wrong I always used to give up and start again with someone else as I had no idea how to fix things but it's hard on the soul to do that too many times. They were never dom/sub relationships so I honestly don't know just how it feels but hope there's some crossover there. I'd like to say 'stick with it' but by the sound of it there's not much to stick with at the moment so I hope something changes (improves!) to make clear what it is you need to do.

Oct. 16th, 2003 02:49 am (UTC)
To be honest the D/s has gone out of the window. he only ever did anything when it suited him, and was never good at the 'behind closed doors' stuff, like training, or correction and reward, unless it was sexual and fitted his fantasy.
He asked me yesterday when the last time i wore my collar was, I replied that it was Sunday, and then asked when the last time he did anything remotely Masterful was, He couldn't remember, and quite honestly, nor can I.
Oct. 16th, 2003 04:47 am (UTC)
That's not a good situation :(

Does he understand how you feel about it (I mean *really* understand) or doesn't he get just how much it means to you? It's good you're at least talking about it and I hope you can find a way to come to a place you're both happy with, although from what you've said he needs to do more 'giving' than than 'taking'.

*big hugs*
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